Tim and Emily had been married for 15 years and were experiencing some rough patches in
their relationship. Concerned about the state of their marriage, they decided to seek couples therapy.
During their first session, the therapist asked Tim, “What seems to be the problem?”
Tim sighed heavily and said, “Well, doc, it all started when we got married. Emily insisted on keeping the lights off during our romantic moments.”
Emily interjected, “That’s because I’m shy!”
Tim continued, “But doc, it’s been 15 years, and I still haven’t seen her face in candlelight!”
The therapist nodded understandingly and turned to Emily, “Is that true, Emily? Why do you prefer the lights off?”
Emily blushed and replied, “Well, doc, it’s because whenever Tim sees my face in the candlelight, he blows it out!”